Why "Don't Put Yourself Out There..." is Toxic BS
Imagine the following scenario in your head.
You walk out of your house one day, on your way to meet a friend for a coffee. And as you turn to walk out of your gate, a random stranger walks past you.
As they pass, they look at your face for a minute. You carry on walking, when they call you back...you turn around and they run up to you to show you a photo they sneakily took of you on their phone, which they've placed alongside ...