My wife and I want to try a threesome to spice up out sex life – is it a good idea?

DEAR DEIDRE: SO we don’t get tempted to cheat, I would like my wife and me to have a more adventurous sex life. I’m 45 and she is 43. I thought she’d object when I brought up the subject of threesomes but she seemed really keen, saying we could include another woman. She even said […]

DEAR DEIDRE: SO we don’t get tempted to cheat, I would like my wife and me to have a more adventurous sex life.

I’m 45 and she is 43. I thought she’d object when I brought up the subject of threesomes but she seemed really keen, saying we could include another woman.

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She even said she was ready for swinging and that she would have sex with a woman if I was there watching.

She isn’t a lesbian as far as I know, so why is she so up for sex with another female? Is this a good idea?

DEIDRE SAYS: No! You brought up the prospect of swinging and threesomes and, before getting started, it’s already causing you worries and doubts.

Including other people in your sex life can cause massive problems all round.

If you want more excitement in bed, keep it between the two of you.

My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex can help.

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