My partner and I rarely have sex because he gets more pleasure from watching porn

DEAR DEIDRE: SEX is boring and all about my partner getting what he wants, then it is over.

We have been together for three years. He is 32, I’m 28. He never kisses or touches me and when he does, he just expects pleasure for him.

We make love only once a month or so. I have tried walking around the house naked and sent him pictures, but he takes no notice.

I know he gets horny watching porn on his phone. Why would he rather pleasure himself than want me?

Is lack of sexual fulfilment a reason to end things with someone you love?

DEIDRE SAYS: He’s so hooked on porn that he’s lost the skill of give-and-take pleasurable sex in real life.

My e-leaflet on Internet Pornography Worries could help you both, but stop blaming yourself.

His selfishness has created a one-sided relationship.

An ultimatum may be the wake-up call he needs.

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