Is it strange that I enjoy wearing fake boobs and dresses after a long and stressful day at work?

DEAR DEIDRE: SOMETIMES, I long to be the girl I might see crossing the room or meet in the street.

I am a guy of 30 and love wearing skirts and dresses. I have even started wearing women’s tops and bras.

I recently ordered false boobs and they make me feel great. I do all this in the privacy of my home and it makes me feel so relaxed when I have had a stressful day at work.

It is strange as there are other times when I like being who I am and don’t even think about wearing my girlie gear.

DEIDRE SAYS: Cross-dressing is about tapping into your feminine side and a release from the stress of your traditional role and competing with other guys.

It’s no problem while you are single, but it can complicate a relationship.

My e-leaflet on Cross-dressing explains in more detail and you can get support from the Beaumont Society, (beaumontsociety.org.uk, 01582 412 220).

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