Young woman at work who wears revealing clothes keeps suggesting we stay behind
DEAR DEIDRE: AN attractive 20-year-old girl at work is suggesting we stay behind at the end of the day “for a bit of fun”.
I am 57. This girl often makes sexual comments. She wears very revealing clothes – totally unsuitable for work but very eye-catching.
Sex with my wife is far from special these days. She is 56 and hasn’t been enthusiastic about anything sexual for a long time.
So far I have resisted the offers I am getting at work but I don’t know how long I can hold out. I’m tempted to stray.
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DEIDRE SAYS: This girl is likely to be vulnerable and needy if she is flirting with a man old enough to be her grandad. (Sorry!) And think about your wife’s reaction if she knew your “working late” was really sex with someone a third of your age.
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