DEAR DEIDRE: STUPIDLY, I took out a mobile contract for my boyfriend but he’s hopeless about paying me back.
I’ve just found out I’m pregnant with his baby – my contraception failed – and worry he will never be a responsible dad.
I’m saddled with my boyfriend’s debts and now I’m expecting his babyGetty - Contributor
I have a full-time job but my boyfriend is a student. We are both 23.
I took out the contract because he lost his phone but he’s useless with money. In the past he’s used my credit card to pay his rent, ran up over £5,000 and I had to work overtime to pay it off.
If I ask him for the phone contract money in advance, he will accuse me of treating him badly and say things like “I’ll pay you some time but I like looking at money in my account”.
I’m scared I’ll be a single mum with a baby whose dad doesn’t care.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Please think realistically about the future. My e-leaflet Unplanned Pregnancy explains your options.
Tell him that he has to set up a standing order to pay you for his phone. He should contact The National Union of Students who can advise on money issues (0300 303 8602, nus.org.uk).
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