Married dad-of-two repeatedly cheats on his clueless wife and says it makes their marriage ‘stronger’
A MARRIED dad-of-two has revealed that he repeatedly cheats on his clueless wife – and argues it makes their marriage “stronger”. Josh – who wished to keep his surname anonymous – uses Ashley Madison, which is an online dating service targeted at people in relationships. He admitted he has been married for eight years, but […]
A MARRIED dad-of-two has revealed that he repeatedly cheats on his clueless wife – and argues it makes their marriage “stronger”.
Josh – who wished to keep his surname anonymous – uses Ashley Madison, which is an online dating service targeted at people in relationships.
He admitted he has been married for eight years, but has had “sexual experiences” with around six women over the past two.
Josh said that his infidelity started when he cheated with a colleague on a work night out, and said the illicit encounter was “liberating”.
He said that he is convinced that his marriage has gone from “stale” to vastly improved after cheating, as he is now “less frustrated”.
UK-based Josh, who is in his 30s, also said that his affairs have “boosted” the dynamic at home, and he has concluded that cheating is a positive influence on his life.
Ashley Madison, which boasts as being a “global leader for affairs” has over 54 million members, with the slogan “Life is Short. Have an affair.”
Josh argued that his sex drive doesn’t match up with his wife, despite him loving her, so he turned the website behind her back to spice things up.
Speaking to the Mirror, Josh said: “It’s almost a win-win, I can explore my desires elsewhere and then I can be much more attentive at home and less agitated about not being fulfilled.
“I’m not looking to fall in love. It’s about hedonistic, erotic pleasure, and how we can help each other have an amazing experience while we are in this life.”
What men seek in an affair, according to a Ashley Madison survey
- Sex – 87%
- To explore new desires – 39%
- Friendship – 39%
- Affection – 33%
- The feeling of butterflies again – 23%
The dad said some of the women have done things in the bedroom with him that he would have never done in his relationship with his wife.
He said: “Yes it’s about sex but it’s more complicated than meeting up with a random person. It’s more developed than that.”
If his wife were to ever find out, he thinks she would be “devastated” but for now it has “enhanced” their relationship.
His tactic on the dating website is to reach out to women and invite them for a drink, and he likes to see the same person for a while as the sex gets better.
The longest he’s been with another woman is nine months and he typically meets up once a month for sex.
What women seek in an affair, according to a Ashley Madison survey
- Sex – 65%
- The feeling of butterflies again – 43%
- To explore new desires – 41%
- Affection – 41%
- Friendship – 39%
He never stays the night to “cover his tracks”, but likes to build trust with the women – ironically.
The dad always deletes messages off his phone to cover his tracks and goes to great lengths to remove any perfume left on him.
Josh said he manages the guilt around his kids well as he can “compartmentalise” his affairs and is a “slightly different person” at home.
Around his wife he is now more attentive and present, and admits he wouldn’t mind if she had an affair behind his back, as long as it wasn’t a proper relationship.
He hopes that he does reach a stage where he doesn’t want to cheat and can just be with his wife, but in the meantime he is happy to find “common desires” with others.
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