Hi! I'm in Orange County, CA, and have a son who is a very athletic, technically proficient player (2010). Can you recommend any coaches in the O.C. area who a) generally utilize positive, encouraging words in training/games, b) are very mild in the "joystick" department, and c) coach flight 1 or 2 teams (2010 or 2009)? Any insight you can offer would be much appreciated. Thank you!