I can’t get over the silver fox I met at a party but he won’t return my calls or texts
DEAR DEIDRE: RECENTLY, I had a short fling with someone I met at a party. It didn’t last, but I cannot get over him.
I am a woman of 49 and met a silver fox of a man at my mate’s 50th last year. He was funny, sexy and charming.
He asked me for a date and we had a lovely evening. He wanted to come back to my flat but I said it was too soon.
I felt a real connection with him and we swapped phone numbers but he never contacted me or replied to my calls or texts.
I recently had a falling out with my brother who is the only family I have, so I am feeling very lonely now.
Popular Dear Deidre problems
DEIDRE SAYS: It is sad that this man showed no real interest in you but the best way to get over him is to widen your circle of friends.
My e-leaflet Feeling Lonely has lots of helpful ideas.
Do not let the falling out with your brother simmer on. Contact him and try to build bridges. Good luck.
READ YESTERDAY’S DEAR DEIDRE I had wonderful sex with my lover – but now he just wants to be friends and prefers sleeping with my pal
READ DEIDRE’S PHOTO CASEBOOK Ed can’t stop cheating on his girlfriend with escort Marietta
Get in touch with Deidre today
Got a problem?
Send an email to problems@deardeidre.org. Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.
Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre.