My boyfriend is addicted to watching porn but has no interest in sex with me anymore
DEAR DEIDRE: I WOULDN’T mind my partner watching porn if we had a good sex life, too, but the porn is more important to him than I am.
We are both 27 and have been together for three years. Our sex life was amazing at the start.
Now he is just not interested in sex at all.
Nothing I do seems to get him turned on and wanting me.
The minute I go out, I know he will start to watch porn, and he often watches it late at night.
It makes me feel like I am not good enough.
This is ruining our relationship.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Porn is designed to be addictive and tends to blunt sexual responses.
Tell him this is a wake-up call before you reach crisis point in your relationship.
He needs to face up to what is happening and stop watching the porn, before it is all he has in his life.
My e-leaflet Internet Pornography Worries outlines support available to break the habit.