My boyfriend is trying to arrange casual sex hook-ups on Tinder but says he was just curious
DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend is advertising himself on Tinder for sex meetings.
I’m 21 and my boyfriend is 24. I saw he was on Tinder a while ago when a message came up on his phone but I put it out of my mind.
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Then something else flashed up on his phone last week so I looked when he was in the shower and saw he’s got a recent profile on there.
I apologised for snooping but asked him what he was doing.
He said it was just curiosity and he’d never cheat.
I want to believe him but he has crushed my confidence.
And why did he forgive me for snooping if he’s done nothing wrong?
DEIDRE SAYS: Probably because he wanted to deflect the attention away from his poor behaviour.
He could hardly have a go at you when he’s doing something underhand.
Tell him he should be focusing on you.
What would raise your self-esteem?
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Going out more together?
Whatever it is, tell him.
Explain that you’re over if things do not improve within a month because you should be first on his list of priorities.
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