My partner’s high sex drive is too much to cope with so it is best we live apart

DEAR DEIDRE: I PREFER sex in a tender, romantic setting but my partner is likely to want it when I am in the middle of cleaning the kitchen.

We are 45 but live apart because of his high sex drive. He wants it every day or sulks.

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He has asked to video us to watch it when he got home and likes to watch us in the wardrobe mirror – all a bit sordid.

My son, who’s 20, is still at home so I tell my partner we can’t go off to the bedroom like teenagers.

He offered me money if I would agree then couldn’t understand why I got upset.

I feel torn. We get on great outside the bedroom, laughing and enjoying the same things. I don’t want to be alone.

DEIDRE SAYS: Try to look for a compromise because clearly much of your relationship suits both of you – and many women would be thrilled to have a guy who desires them every day.

Men are turned on by visual stimulation more than women, so try to be less judgmental.

Wanting to watch in the mirror isn’t that kinky but offering you cash for sex when your son was around was unacceptable.

My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex will help.

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