I moved in with my boyfriend before lockdown and the sex immediately went downhill
DEAR DEIDRE: SEX with my boyfriend was great before lockdown but it’s now gone right downhill.
I moved in with him at the end of March. He’s 28 and I’m 25 and we get on fairly well but our sex life is not what it was.
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I’m feeling rejected and sad. I have spoken to him about this a few times and I get the result that I want, which is great, but I don’t want to have to beg him for sex.
He blames work and says he’s tired all the time. I thought it would spark more interest in sex if I bought a few toys but when I raised the idea, he seemed almost annoyed.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Living together is different from dating. Do you think he felt rushed into taking this step?
Don’t wind up the pressure with toys. Back off a little and give him some space.
My e-leaflet Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive explains self-help sex therapy and suggests giving each other a relaxing massage to help refresh him.
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