My wife has ballooned in size and drinks a whole bottle of wine every night
DEAR DEIDRE: FROM a bright, vivacious and kind woman, my wife has turned into somebody I no longer recognise.
She’s ballooned in size and drinks a bottle of wine every night.
I work long hours six days a week. When I get home I have to clean, do the washing and make our three kids’ packed lunches.
I’ve been having an affair with one of the women who works for me. She’s 40 and wonderful.
I’m 43 and I’m seriously considering leaving my wife for my lover.
She has even said the kids can come with me, because they say their mum has been shouting and swearing at them.
What should I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: I get the temptation to walk away but tell her your relationship is on the line unless she gets sober.
She is clearly very unhappy, but is also putting your kids at risk.
You can find help at wearewithyou.org.uk.
Put your affair on hold while you give your family life one last chance.
If this doesn’t work, it sounds like the children would be safer living with you.
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