My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me when he moved in three years ago
DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend hasn’t had sex with me for nearly three years – and we’ve only been together for three and a half.
We were all over one another when we first met but then he moved in and it just stopped. No kissing, no cuddling, nothing.
To tempt him, I’ve tried everything – sexy messages, lingerie, explicit texts. But he just rejects me.
I’ve tried to lose weight in case he doesn’t fancy me.
He says he doesn’t like my tattoos and my piercings, but I look exactly the same as when we met.
We are both 32 and I want to end things because it’s like living with my best friend.
But my kids adore him. If he goes, he’ll be homeless.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your own happiness is as important as your kids’. But don’t end things without giving the relationship your best shot.
If he lost his libido when he moved in then almost certainly that’s where the answer lies.
Maybe he can’t associate sex with a live-in partner. Has he been hurt by one in the past?
Tell him this is risking your relationship.
My e-leaflet on Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive explains where to turn for support.
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