I met up with a Tinder date and he was a walking red flag – the way he treated his mom made me run away quickly

WHEN it comes to casual dating, red flags should never be ignored. Once you’re already in a relationship, it can be harder to get out after red flags present themselves—so it’s best to spot these potential bad signs early on. A woman who goes by @trashstarrxx on TikTok said she ran for the hills after […]

WHEN it comes to casual dating, red flags should never be ignored.

Once you’re already in a relationship, it can be harder to get out after red flags present themselves—so it’s best to spot these potential bad signs early on.

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A woman was horrified with the way her Tinder date treated his mother[/caption]

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She posted a video in which the man can be heard speaking to his mother in the background[/caption]

A woman who goes by @trashstarrxx on TikTok said she ran for the hills after witnessing the way her date spoke to his mother on the phone.

She recorded herself in the car so that viewers could hear the man speak to his mother in the background.

The clip was captioned: “On a Tinder date listening to this man gaslight his mother.”

The man had his mother on speaker phone and began saying to her: “I said yes from the beginning.”

His tone was harsh and direct.

The mother can be heard saying back, “Ok. Alright.”

He then began to question her: “How could you forget that?”

The mother replied: “You and I only talk—we kind of f*** with each other back and forth.”

But the son wasn’t having it, and began to gaslight her immediately:

“No. I said yes a long time ago. I don’t know what you’re talking about. You sound crazy right now. Are you forgetting things?”

This was when his mother began to really grow annoyed. She said back: “No I’m not forgetting things, really?”

But the son persisted: “No, no like are you ok though, for real?”

“Yes Jacob I’m fine,” the mother said back.

The man wouldn’t drop it: “Because I said yes from the beginning.”

The last thing we hear the mother say is: “I don’t recall you ever saying yes. I recall you bitching a lot.”  

TikTok viewers told the woman on the date to get out of dodge:

“No way. You’re lucky you witnessed this early,” one person wrote.

“The way he treats his mother is the way he’ll treat you. Grams told me that at 11,” another advised.

“THE UNIVERSE IS SAVING YOU BY HAVING THIS HAPPEN IN FRONT OF YOU,” claimed a third.

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The woman couldn’t believe how degrading he was to his own mom[/caption]