Man slammed for calling his date ‘inexperienced’ after she laid out everything he did wrong – people agree with her
ONE clueless man is asking for dating advice after he received some pointed texts from a woman he likes.
The man posted to the dating advice thread on Reddit, but instead of receiving helpful advice, he was slammed for his post.
He first wrote: “I kinda like this girl from college and we’ve been texting each other for a bit now.
“I never realized that I was hurting her or she was going through all these emotions because of my actions, frankly because I didn’t think she cared so much.
“She texted me today and I don’t know if she’s done with me or I still have a shot with her.
“More than that, I don’t know what else to say apart from sorry and don’t know how to proceed further without hurting her.
“I know I do seem like a real loser from the texts but any tips to make this better would be appreciated.”
He then included the series of texts he received from her, where she wrote: “You asked me three times to go out with you but I couldn’t. By the time I could, you relocated to Seattle.”
After their missed opportunity, she then asked him to make concrete plans when he visited her town, but he didn’t.
“You’d just text me randomly every day at random times asking to go out with you and made me feel like a backup.
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“The one time you made a plan, it was to invite me over on the first date.”
The woman’s text messages continued: “All you do is text me all the time asking to meet when we’re in the same place and when you do come to visit, you never make proper plans.”
Following her messages, he then added: “I don’t know if this is relevant but she’s very inexperienced, never dated/hooked up, and from what I heard, apparently really liked me.”
People in the comment section certainly did not appreciate the poster’s words about his crush and some let him have it.
“You’re in the wrong. Don’t put it on her by calling her ‘inexperienced’ you d*******,” one person wrote.
Another added: “You say she’s inexperienced as if it has anything to do with it.
“No dude, you’re the one looking inexperienced. She communicated.”
“You are a garbage person. You claim she is inexperienced, so to me it looks like you were attempting to hit it and ghost her and she was too smart for your s**t,” someone quipped.
Another comment read: “Leave this poor girl alone.”
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In other relationship news, one man claimed his 28-year-old-girlfriend’s mom has banned her from moving in with him unless she comes too.
Meanwhile, one woman’s date demanded she commit to him exclusively after just 90 minutes of talking.
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