My repulsive ex won’t stop trying to touch and kiss me when he collects our son
DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex tries it on with me every time he calls to collect our son.
It’s got to the point where I’m repulsed by him.
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I feel violated every time he goes to touch me.
We split up three months ago as I couldn’t stand being so miserable any longer.
I’m 29 and he is 31.
We were together for eight years and have a four-year-old son.
Sex was non-existent in the year before we split up because I no longer loved him.
He never had respect for me and took me for granted.
He controlled my whole life, but he still thinks I’m going to take him back.
He’s a big guy, weighing 18st.
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He has always used his strength to overpower me.
What can I do to stop him trying to kiss and touch me?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Unfortunately, the controlling behaviour of an abuser will often continue even after the relationship breaks up.
Spell out to him that you will report him to the police if he continues and that it’s damaging for your son to witness his behaviour.
My support pack Standing Up For Yourself will help.
The Freedom Programme (freedomprogramme.co.uk) helps women to free themselves from the clutches of an abusive partner.