I’ve never been able to last – I’m terrified of sex in case my new love leaves me
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM fed up with never being able to last long in bed.
I’m 31 and have suffered on and off from premature ejaculation ever since I had my first girlfriend at 18.
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My partners have always been understanding but that doesn’t make it any less embarrassing.
I’m recently divorced and joined a dating site.
I’ve met a wonderful woman and we’ve been out a few times.
But I’m reluctant to take our relationship to the next level.
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I dread the thought of sex because I know I will only last for a matter of seconds.
She will be sure to go off me then.
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DEIDRE SAYS: This is one of the most common worries that men write to me about – and it is also one of the easiest to put right.
There are a range of self-help techniques you can learn to stop this being a problem.
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Also, sharing your fears with future sexual partners will help you feel more at ease.
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