I’m so desperate to have a baby I’m even considering seducing my stepdad
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M so desperate to have a baby I’m even considering seducing my stepdad.
I’m 19, he is 41 and my mother is 40. All my friends are having babies and I’m so jealous. Becoming a mum is all I think about.
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My stepdad is lovely. But Mum has always gone for younger men so I was surprised when she brought him home.
He keeps fit, takes an interest in us and isn’t her usual “use and abuse” type.
I’m single and went out with my mates a few weeks ago, and ended up in a club where I met a lovely older man.
He said he was 35 and we spent the night flirting and dancing together.
I’d planned to go home with him but he disappeared before the night ended so I went home, feeling sad and frustrated.
Mum had gone to see my nan for the weekend. But letting myself in, I tried to be as quiet as possible so as not to wake my stepdad.
I discovered him asleep on the sofa, in front of the TV.
He looked gorgeous lying there, all manly and sleepy. I couldn’t help myself. I started kissing his neck, then his face and then I started rubbing him through his trousers.
He didn’t open his eyes but let me carry on. I could tell he had woken up. I gave him oral sex and he loved it but then he looked horrified when he realised it was me and not my mother.
He could barely look at me the next day but I just grinned at him. Now all I want is him.
The other guys I’ve got to know just seem silly and immature by comparison with him.
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If I got pregnant by him, would my mum ever need to know it was my stepdad’s baby?
I reckon I could seduce him again. I don’t think he’d be able to resist.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are playing with fire here and have already overstepped a boundary already.
He isn’t interested in you. His reaction said it all. And if you had a baby at 19 you might well end up as a single mum, which is no walk in the park.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Enjoy being single and living life. In time you’ll meet someone special and make sure they are also available.
Together you can plan a child in a more secure and stable environment.
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Do yourself, your mum and your stepdad a favour and don’t go near him again. If he mentions it, tell him it was a mistake.
I urge you to talk this through with a counsellor at The Mix (themix.org.uk, 0808 808 4994) which helps anyone under 25.