My friends and family only call when they need something
DEAR DEIDRE: FEEL like my friends and family only get in touch when they need something.
I’m 43 and have been living on my own since my wife died from cancer four years ago.
At first, my friends and family were amazing, always checking in and inviting me over.
But over the last year, I’ve noticed that I’ve become less of a priority.
My best mate, for example, only seems to text me when he needs something.
He’s useless at DIY, so called me last week to see if I could help him install his new TV.
Before that, I hadn’t heard from him for a month.
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And my sister hasn’t returned my texts in weeks.
Am I being oversensitive?
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DEIDRE SAYS: No, you’re not. But rather than it being anything personal, it sounds as though life has got in the way of your friends and family.
Instead of waiting for your friend, why not invite him to the pub, or for a walk?
And maybe give your sister a call to make sure everything’s OK.
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It might also help to meet some new people. Look at meetup.com, which shows groups and events in your local areas.
Widening your social circle should help you feel less isolated.