I fancy an old Tinder flame but he is closing off because of his ex
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE reconnected with an old Tinder match, but we are taking it slowly because he is just getting over his ex.
I fancy the pants off him, but I am always the one making conversation.
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He had given me hope we could be a couple before and I was so happy as we have loads in common.
I’m 26 and he’s 28. We’re planning to meet, but his ex is a big problem.
On one hand he tells me he’s looking for someone to hang out with, but then he is openly on Tinder at the same time.
I don’t know what I should be doing.
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Do I behave like a friend or a girlfriend?
I want to get things going with him but feel he is closing off because of his ex.
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