I can’t stop thinking about making love to my sexy sister-in-law – I know it’s wrong
DEAR DEIDRE: HOW do I stop myself from fantasising about my sister-in-law?
I know it’s wrong, but I can’t stop thinking about making love to her.
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I am 41 and my wife is 38. We have been married for five years and have a two-year-old daughter and my wife is pregnant.
My sister-in-law is 33. My wife is lovely, but my sister-in-law is something else – curvy, sexy and cheeky. I’ve fancied her for years.
I love my wife and do feel guilty about my feelings for my sister-in-law.
Lately, I avoid being where she is as I start becoming aroused when I’m around her.
It is getting difficult for me to stop thinking about her.
I have even used photos of her on social media while I pleasure myself.
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How do I fall out of lust with her?
My wife would be devastated if she knew of my feelings towards her.
DEIDRE SAYS: It is natural and inevitable to find other people attractive from time to time.
We can’t control our thoughts and feelings, but we can control our actions.
As long as you don’t act on it, you’re not doing anything wrong.
Your wife and sister-in-law will have similar familial traits which hold an attraction for you, but you don’t know the sister like you do your wife.
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