No Care, No Loss

Some people focus on a so-called loss, but the way I see it, something is not actually a loss unless it matters to someone. 
 
What may appear as a loss could be a gain. 
 
I cannot speak for everyone, however, from my own personal experience, when we lose someone or if someone leaves our life, it does not or will not affect us unless we care. 
 
If someone we love dies or goes away, we will miss them or long to see ...