My five-year-old son has long blonde hair & I even braid it, people say he’ll get bullied but I don’t care, he loves it
A MUM who braids her five-year-old son’s long blonde hair into plaits for school has responded to trolls who say he’ll get bullied – and insists it’s OK for boys to have long locks, too.
Charlie Hayes, who posts under the acronym @churchofstrawberry, took to TikTok and posted a video of her adorable son Jasper, whose long hair can be seen neatly braided into two plaits.
In the clip, which has since gone viral, Charlie can be heard saying to her son: “You look so beautiful, do you love your hair?
“Do you like the new plaits Mummy did? Do you want to have them again like this tomorrow?”
Beaming, an excited Jasper replies: “Yeah!”
She then asks: “Why have you got long hair?”
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Without hesitation, Jasper responds: “Because I like long hair.”
He then goes on to say how he thinks long hair looks better on boys than short hair, before agreeing he thinks he’s got “the best hair in the world.”
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The post has since racked up a whopping 897,000 views and been flooded with comments.
“I think my 3 yr old would disagree (he thinks HE has the best hair in the world) it’s blonde and very long & curly.. #boyswithlonghair,” wrote one.
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Charlie replied: “Hahahah bless him! We love confident little kings.”
A second penned: “Love to see this.”
A third praised: “Being raised correctly.”
Another commented: “What a legend.”
Elsewhere, one person noted: “Jasper is a lovely boy who is clearly cared about and loved deeply however you can’t get mad when people assume his Gender especially older people.”
A further asked: “Genuine question do you get scared that he maybe bullied? I know kids can be so cruel.”
In response, Charlie shared a second video and explained: “I do get asked this so much and obviously it’s something I’ve battled with in my own head and I’ve worried about all the time.
“I don’t want him to ever feel like he has to change who he is because of other people being cruel to him.
“But fortunately, just as I predicted, I’ve raised a strong little boy who literally does not give a f*** what people think.
“That may not be forever but as of now it is.
“He has a choice and I have thoroughly explained to him why people think he’s a girl quite a lot and why people might be mean to him.”
She continues: “I’ve offered him the alternative of cutting his hair to make things peaceful and he’s always declined his offer. It’s his choice at the end of the day!
“If it gets too much for him and he wants to cut it, he’s more than welcome to do so.
“Kids get bullied for everything – from being poor, having freckles, being ginger, being ugly – kids get bullied, it happens.
“Him being bullied for him having long hair is probably one of the more gentle things.”
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Charlie concludes: “He has a pretty objective view on it – he just thinks other people are stupid, and he’s right.
“Anyone telling him long hair is not for boys is stupid – because he’s a boy and he has long hair!”
