I’m 48 years old and have a toyboy 13 years younger – he asks for my permission to do things but our sex life is on fire
A 48-YEAR-OLD woman revealed how her age gap relationship has transformed her life, in and out of the bedroom.
Nita Marie described how being with a man 13 years her juniour has spiced things up.
The mum-of-two went through a divorce seven years ago and set out on a journey of self discovery when she met her new beau.
Nita didn’t reveal her new husband’s name for privacy reasons but said that dating someone so much younger has been an “eye-opening” experience.
“We met when I was ‘finding myself’ again,” she told What’s The Jam.
While the pair instantly hit it off, she explained that the age gap between the two is sometimes very evident.
“I keep having to remember he is 13 years younger than me, as he does sometimes act a tad immature,” said Nita, who hails from Colorado, US.
“Because he’s younger, I often take on a more dominant character – both in and outside the bedroom.”
While she described this dynamic as “mostly a good thing,” Nita pointed out that sometimes there can be issues.
“He often asks for permission to do things or thinks he’ll get in trouble when he does something he’s not supposed to,” she said.
“But none of that matters when we’re in the bedroom.
“As a woman in my 40s, being with a man who is happy to explore in the bedroom is amazing.”
Nita revealed some of the ways the couple have added spice to their sex life.
“We do role play scenarios, which has been a huge turn-on for both of us and has elevated our sex life,” she said.
“He also loves ‘catching’ me naked in the shower and hopping in with me.”
Nita met her second husband after her divorce in February 2017, on a Facebook page.
As a newly-divorced woman, she had set out to try new activities such as dating men in their 20s and 30s.
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Nita, who shares 12-year-old twin daughters with her first husband, also returned to modelling.
Unlike her first stint in the modelling world, she now poses without clothes.
It was through an online group dedicated to her work that she met her second husband.
Nita’s fans would often leave loving messages and comments on the page.
Her future partner’s “nice and sweet” comments stood out and caught Nita’s eye.
“He was very mature [for his age] and I could tell that he was used to handling responsibility,” she said.
“I tend to go for more blue-collar, hard-working men that are down to earth; which he is.
“He communicated with me on my level and already had a lot of life experience.”
Nita reached out and asked her now husband for help with an online project.
“He did it without asking for anything in return, unlike most guys,” she explained.
“I knew then that I liked him and after our first phone call it was a sure thing that we wanted to be together.”
The pair made things official just a month after meeting for the first time.
In 2021, they tied the knot and have been living the domestic dream ever since.
“My husband takes care of our animal sanctuary, the girls, and household things,” Nita said.
“The twins love him and treat him as if he were an older brother sometimes.”
She revealed that her friends and family weren’t immediately sold on the match but have since come around.
“At first, people were a bit nervous about our relationship but he’s very good to me, treats me well and we compliment each other,” Nita explained.
“He keeps the youthful fun in me with his playful energy.
“I do more active things than I would do with someone my age or older – such as hiking, playing pool, and going out with friends.”
She added that her husband is “super loyal” and “not a player in the slightest,” which she said is one of the reasons she was so attracted to him.
“All our magical moments outweigh any challenges – and I know he’s only got eyes for me,” Nita said.
