My Mum doesn’t trust me with my male friend, even though he’s gay

DEAR DEIDRE: My mum doesn’t trust me – she won’t let me hang out with a boy, even though he’s gay.

I’m going into year eight at secondary school.

Lately, I’ve been spending time with a friend who happens to be homosexual.

Every time I ask to go to the park with him, mum says I’m not allowed.

She said his sexuality isn’t the problem, she’s just really worried about me spending time with him alone. Apparently, it’s a red flag.

I get that she’s concerned, but I wish she had more faith in me.

I’m old enough to make my own decisions and I don’t understand the problem.

How can I reassure my mum and show her I’m making good choices, so she’ll let me live my life?

DEIDRE SAYS: Your mum is worried about your safety and only wants the best for you.

Letting her know where you are and who you are with, will make her feel better.

Try suggesting your friend come to your house instead.

It could help everyone get to know each other and ease your mum’s concerns.