Dealing with Emotionally Immature People

“She’s crazy!” “He’s a narcissist!” “No one is listening to me!” These are but a few comments I hear when my clients are completely frustrated with their “soon-to-be” ex or the other parent of their child. The unfortunate reality in family law is that you will have to deal with an “opposing party” that you would much rather cut completely out of your life. Regardless of the circumstance or reason for the failed relationship, dealing with an opposing party out of necessity instead of desire is daunting.Part of the difficulty in dealing with the opposing party in complex family dynamics could stem from various issues: mental health issues, substance abuse, adultery, narcissism, laziness, or a multitude of other reasons. Some of these issues may appear on your internet history as you try to learn more about these issues via social media or “Google.” However, one area that tends to be overlooked from my perspective is Emotional Intelligence, Emotional Safety, and Emotional Immaturity. Emot...