My girlfriend still speaks to her ex’s family and it makes me feel uneasy
DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend is still in touch with her ex’s family and it’s making me feel really insecure.
She broke up with him a year ago but I’m paranoid there’s still something going on. I’m 18 and she’s 19.
She was with him for three years and she ended it because he cheated.
When I asked when they were last in touch, she said it was the day they broke up.
But his siblings still follow her on social media – why would they do that if she’s not with their brother any more?
I can’t stop wondering if I’m being lied to.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Nothing you’ve told me suggests your girlfriend is lying.
She has no control over her ex’s family – maybe they just like her, maybe they weren’t happy their brother cheated.
In a relationship, trust is vital.
If you feel insecure, you need to talk about your feelings, and work on yourself.
My Jealousy support pack should help.
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