I’m head over heels for my girlfriend but I can’t resist her sexy boss

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my girlfriend with all my heart, but I can’t keep my hands off her sexy boss.

I own three restaurants, and I first met my lover when I set up the business three years ago – she owns a local alcohol supplier.

She’s 42, I’m 40, and she’s amazing, always happy to deliver at short notice if we get busy. One weekend, when she helped me out, I invited her to stay for a drink.

We got on so well that eventually the restaurant closed, and we stayed talking until the early hours of the morning.

It’s safe to say that things progressed rather quickly, and we ended up in bed together.

At the time I was so caught up I pushed the fact she was married to the back of my head.

While I knew it was wrong, after that we continued to see each other in secret.

Then one day she invited me to her work Christmas party, and it was then she introduced me to her husband – and new assistant.

Her new assistant is 33 and lovely. We spent the entire evening chatting away and her boss – my lover didn’t seem to mind at all.

So I asked for her number and then took her out the following week.

We’ve been inseparable ever since, and it’s safe to say I’m crazy about her, but as hard as I try, I still can’t resist her boss.

We often end up in the cellar together, and so far nobody has caught on.

I feel terrible for hiding this from my girlfriend.

DEIDRE SAYS: What you’re doing is wrong, and you both know it.

If this dead-end relationship continues, you risk losing the girl you’re crazy about, and her boss risks imploding her whole marriage.

It’s time to end things now and put some boundaries in place.

The more time you spend investing in this affair, the less energy you’ll have to build an amazing relationship with the woman you care about.

Tell your lover your relationship will be purely professional from now on. If she’s unhappy with this, consider breaking professional ties too.

Ask yourself why you struggled to resist this woman. Is it because you enjoy spontaneous sex and the risk?

My support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex is full of ideas you can implement into your sex life with your girlfriend instead.