I’m a traveller and people constantly ask if us girls can work – yes we can, but there’s certain lines we won’t cross
A YOUNG woman from the traveller community has revealed the truth on whether the women can work.
Zoey, from the UK, took to social media to share her thoughts on the matter.
Im a traveller and people constantly ask if us girls can work – yes we can, but there’s certain lines we wont cross, , https://www.tiktok.com/@zoey_pon/video/7421501863243091233, , NO PERMISSION[/caption] Im a traveller and people constantly ask if us girls can work – yes we can, but there’s certain lines we wont cross, , https://www.tiktok.com/@zoey_pon/video/7421501863243091233, , NO PERMISSION[/caption]Looking after the family is a huge part of being a woman in the traveller community – with many opting to stay at home cooking, cleaning and looking after the children while their partner goes out to work.
But Zoey revealed that times were changing.
Responding to a comment that asked if women would be supported by their family to stay in school and work she shared the modern way of life for people.
She said: “Years ago, traveller women would never, ever work.
“Traveller women would stay home, babysit the children, clean the house, cook for the men, cook for the children.”
Nowadays though, Zoey revealed it wasn’t common for women to stay in the home for most of the day and they did indeed go out to work.
Although many do help bring money home now – she said there was still lines they wouldn’t cross.
Working at a bank or a post office wouldn’t happen she said, but they do tend to work for themselves.
“But when a traveller girl does work, it’s either hair, makeup, selling stuff on social media, lips (aesthetic practitioners),” she added.
Finishing off her video, she revealed families would definitely support the women going off to work and making money for herself.
The clip has since gone viral on her TikTok account @zoey_pon with over 890k views and 33k likes.
People were quick to share their thoughts in the comments.
One person wrote: “If a traveller girl chooses to work as well, does her husband help with chores etc, as she doesn’t have as much spare time? Or is she still expected to do everything?”
Another commented: “Quite a few of the traveller ladies around my village have businesses. Mostly eyebrows and tanning salons. Good quality and good prices too.”
Traditions in the gypsy/traveller communities
Nomadic lifestyle: Traditionally, many travellers maintain a nomadic lifestyle, living in caravans and moving frequently. This mobility is a core aspect of their identity, reflecting a deep connection to freedom and independence.
Strong family bonds: Family is central to traveller culture. Extended families often live and travel together, providing a strong support network. Marriages and social events are significant community affairs, reinforcing familial ties.
Distinct Language: Many travellers speak Shelta, also known as Cant or Gammon, a distinct language that mixes elements of Irish, English, and other languages. This language serves as a cultural marker and a means of private communication within the community.
Religious practices: The traveller community often follows Roman Catholicism, with religious festivals and milestones like baptisms, communions, and weddings being particularly significant. However, individual beliefs and practices can vary widely.
Unique celebrations: Events such as horse fairs and traditional weddings are major social gatherings for travellers. These occasions are marked by elaborate preparations, vibrant attire, and communal participation.
“Some travellers have gone to college and got degrees. Nothing should hold ye back. Education is freedom,” penned a third.
Meanwhile a fourth said: “I’m so glad someone is speaking about traveller life, because I used to know nothing about the traveller community but now after watching your videos I feel so much more educated. Thank you.”
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