Me and my hubby had a threesome with his best pal – we thought it would spice things up but it was a total disaster
A WOMAN has revealed that she and her husband had a threesome to try and spice things up in the bedroom, but it ended in a total disaster.
She explained that she is not a ‘sexually adventurous’ person, but when her husband suggested the idea of a threesome, she didn’t rush to say no.
But the woman admitted that when things went to the next level with her husband and his best friend, she quickly crumbled and couldn’t deal with being the ‘centre of attention’.
Keen to open up on the situation, which she claimed is now causing her marriage to ‘fall apart’, the woman took to social media to share all.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/TrueOffMyChest thread, the woman wrote under the username @ThrowRA-Idea-7278 and titled her post ‘Marriage is falling apart after a failed threesome with my husband’s best friend’.
She then confessed: “I’m not a sexually adventurous person. I admit that.
“After 20 years of the same thing my husband wanted to spice things up. My husband wanted to try out the experience of new people.
“Our first threesome was with a woman we both knew was very sexually open. She was a former coworker. It was for my husband’s birthday.
“It was fine even if it wasn’t my cup of tea but I just kept waking up with flashbacks to the event months after.
“Then it was a threesome with a man and my husband suggested his best friend Z. I didn’t have objections but maybe I should have.
“Looking back at it, I wasn’t ready to be the “center” of attention.”
The woman explained that her next threesome was ‘too much’ and after barely any time at all, she was left in tears.
She continued: “The first threesome was easier because I didn’t have to participate much and I could just withdraw and let my husband and the coworker do their thing.
“This one was just way too much and in my face. But I tried to put a smile on.
“After a couple minutes of foreplay my husband needed to take a break because he hadn’t eaten and he told Z and I to continue while he grabbed a snack.
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“We continued but Z suddenly asked me if I was okay. I just started crying and he immediately stopped what he was doing and asked what was wrong. That only made me cry harder.”
The woman shared that she was left feeling incredibly ‘overwhelmed’ and mortified, as she admitted: “I felt really ashamed and embarrassed and overwhelmed. And I couldn’t articulate why at that point.
“He helped me put my clothes back on and just hugged me until I felt better and more calm.
I can feel our marriage crumbling. I keep having flashbacks to him and his coworker
Reddit poster
“Z asked me again what was wrong and asked if he made me feel uncomfortable and I had to explain that it was just overwhelming with having four hands on me and being with someone else other than my husband and having to see him with someone else and sleeping with a friend and I was just not ready.”
But her husband wasn’t quite on the same page when he returned to the bedroom, as she said: “My husband came back later and joked that he missed the action and if I was ready for round two.
“Z told him I wasn’t ready for anything and that it was a bad idea. They ended up having a back and forth about when was a good time and I barely remember what they said.
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“It’s been a couple of months since that and my husband and I have agreed on no more threesomes and he apologised that it was a disaster.
“I feel guilty for being attracted to Z. My husband has always been slightly insecure if his partner prefers Z over him since his first girlfriend tried to cheat on him with Z.
“Maybe the threesome was a way to placate his feelings and make him feel more secure that I wasn’t going to do that. But I harbored no attracted to Z before the threesome.”
As a result of the situation, she concluded: “But I can feel our marriage crumbling. I keep having flashbacks to him and his coworker.
“And I just keep remembering Z comforting me while my husband made stupid jokes about round two and missing the action.”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left stunned by the woman’s confession and quickly flocked to the comments to share their thoughts on the situation.
One person said: “What a surprise, monogamous relationship tries otherwise and is irreparably damaged.”
And this my friends is why threesomes and open relationships almost never work
Reddit user
Another added: “I’m sorry, all of this sounds awful. Through Reddit I’ve learned that picking threesomes with existing friends or coworkers is probably a horrible idea. Especially at the beginning of trying it out.
“Now these people are stuck in your life and things can’t be unseen. Sorry you’re going through this.”
A third commented: “And this my friends is why threesomes and open relationships almost never work.”
Whilst someone else penned: “Why do women keep doing sexual things they don’t want to just to make their husbands happy?
“You sacrifice your soul for some man’s pleasure. I love myself more than any man.”