Watch the moment a mother-in-law is slammed for ‘Karen’ reaction to gender reveal & people say husband’s a red flag too
A MOTHER-IN-LAW has been “slammed” for her reaction to a gender reveal.
A British couple were so excited to find out the sex of their first ever child, but the mum-to-be was left fuming after her husband’s mother ‘ruined’ the moment.
In a video shared by the @itsgoneviral TikTok account, the excited couple can be seen pulling on a confetti canon and jumping for joy when pink paper flies out of the canon, indicating that they are going to have a baby girl.
The mum-to-be turns to give her husband a hug but is taken aback when her mother-in-law barges past her and jumps on to her son, knocking him on to the sofa as she envelopes him in a tight hug.
“She’s gonna be like her nanny, she’s gonna be like her nanny”, the grandmother-to-be cries, as she continues to tightly wrap her arms around her son, whilst his wife looks visibly upset.
Fighting back tears, the wife storms over to her mother-in-law, to give her a piece of her mind.
“You just completely stole our moment”, she fumes.
“What do you mean?”, the mother in law replies.
“This is our baby, I don’t think this was right”, the wife shoots back.
“I’m excited that you’re having a baby”, the mum in law says, becoming defensive.
The wife then explains that she thinks it’s unfair that she wasn’t given the opportunity to hug her husband after such a special moment.
“He hugs you every day, like what’s the problem?” the mother in law said, unable to see an issue with her behaviour.
The altercation continued, with the husband then stepping in to defend his mum.
“Everyone’s just happy, come on,” he said, trying to defuse the situation.
“Are you a bit hormonal, do you want to go and lie down?” the mother in law then cruelly commented.
This comment did not go down well with the rest of the guests, which further infuriated the mother-in-law.
What’s the Deal with Gender Reveals & Why is Everyone Having Them?
What Is A Gender Reveal?
Gender reveal parties are celebrations where expectant parents announce the sex of their baby in a creative and often dramatic way.
These events have gained significant popularity, especially through social media.
The trend began in the late 2000s and has since exploded in popularity.
The concept was popularised by parents who wanted to share their excitement with family and friends in a memorable and engaging way.
Common Methods:
- Cakes: Cutting a cake filled with either blue or pink filling.
- Balloons: Popping a balloon to release colored confetti.
- Smoke Bombs: Releasing colored smoke.
- Piñatas: Breaking a piñata to reveal colored candies or confetti.
- Fireworks: Using fireworks to display blue or pink colors.
Why Are They So Popular?
- Social Media Influence: Platforms like Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube have amplified the trend, with many parents posting videos and photos that go viral.
- Milestone Celebration: It’s an additional way for parents to celebrate a significant milestone during pregnancy.
- Creativity: These events offer an outlet for parents to be creative and personalize their announcement.
- Community Sharing: They provide an opportunity to include extended family and friends in the pregnancy journey.
Controversies:
- Safety Concerns: Some gender reveal methods have led to accidents and even wildfires.
- Environmental Impact: The use of non-biodegradable materials and fireworks can have environmental consequences.
- Inclusivity: There’s growing awareness and sensitivity towards non-binary and transgender identities, leading to criticism that these events can be exclusionary.
Despite the controversies, gender reveal parties continue to evolve.
Some parents are opting for more eco-friendly and inclusive ways to celebrate, while others are choosing to forgo the tradition altogether.
In summary, gender reveals are a modern trend driven by social media, creativity, and the desire to celebrate milestones.
However, they also come with their share of controversies, prompting some to reconsider how they choose to share their baby news.
“Why is everyone staring at me and attacking me?”, she fumed.
The video has been viewed over 26 million times, and has generated strong reactions on social media.
TikTok users raced to the video’s comments section, with many suggesting the couple may be heading for a divorce.
One person said: “What the mum did was wrong.. your wife comes before your mum… period.”
A second person said: “Why didn’t this guy defend his wife?“
A third person fumed: “The husband not defending his wife is a total red flag.”
A fourth person added: “Having a Karen as a mother in law is a total nightmare.”