I’m giving my husband a foursome for Christmas – I’ve already picked another couple as the perfect festive treat
THINKING of a thoughtful gift for a partner each Christmas is no easy feat and some married couples are happy to settle on new socks and smellys or a bottle of perfume.
But mundane gifts aren’t at the top of Isabel Lima’s list this year because she has a much saucier present lined up for her husband.
Isabel, 25, plans to treat Prazeres Jr, 35, to sex with another couple because she says he deserves the ‘special’ treat this Christmas.
She married the ‘love of her life’, Prazeres Jr, 35, just two years ago but already the pair are willing to open up their marriage.
Isabel says: “We’re here to show that love doesn’t have to be monogamous and that there is incredible freedom when you allow love to flow without restrictions.
“Many people feel pressured in their monogamous relationships.
“They come to us looking for a solution to this constant desire to ‘jump the fence’.
Initially, the couple, both influencers, intended to remain monogamous but have since agreed that they want to embrace a more fluid relationship.
So far, they’ve had sex separately with a number of other people but this Christmas will the first time they’ve brought anyone else into their marital bed.
And Isabela wants to take it up a notch by inviting not one but two like-minded people into their relationship for one night only.
Speaking exclusively to Fabulous, Isabela says: “When I told Prazeres I’d be gifting him a foursome, he was very enthusiastic.
“I came up with the idea as a way to strengthen our bond and introduce new experiences into our relationship.
“I want to break away from the ordinary.
“A foursome will bring us closer together and strengthen our partnership.
“There’s nothing better than sharing desires and fantasies with someone you love.
“It’s all based on trust and connection.”
While some couples might be reluctant to share their sex lives with friends and family, Isabela and Prazeres are an open book.
But they admit that some of their closest were shocked at their decision to bring two more people into their bedroom.
Referring to the reactions of others, Isabela says: “Well, there was a bit of everything.
“Some people thought it was super bold, others admired our courage.
“Of course, there are always critics, but the important thing is that we’re happy and having fun with it.”
‘On the same wavelength’
The pair have already picked another duo to “have fun” with.
Isabela explains: “It will be a couple.
“We’ve already talked to them, and everyone’s on the same wavelength.”
Aside from their very saucy present to each other, the couple plan to have a traditional Christmas otherwise.
“Christmas itself will be spent with our family,” Isabela says.
“The classic stuff: dinner, laughter, and loved ones.
“But the ‘special gift’ is just for us, something private and much more intimate.
“Plus it’s also his gift, to me – a gift we’ll enjoy together.”
The couple say that they will enjoy their ‘gift’ at some point over the festive season but not on the big day itself.
“It won’t be on Christmas Day,” says Isabel.
“This kind of gift calls for a more private atmosphere so we’re thinking of a hotel.”
It’s rare to find someone willing to spice things up in such a confident and genuine way.
Prazares Jr
Prazeres Jr admits that he is thrilled with his Christmas presents and believes it will only do positive things for their marriage.
He said: “It is an incredible surprise.
“It’s rare to find someone willing to spice things up in such a confident and genuine way.
“And I believe that moments like these, especially during festive occasions, allow us to explore new aspects of our relationship.”
What is polyamory?
Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties.
It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple.
According to You Gov, 6.8% of people in the UK have been in a polyamorous relationship.
The couple, from São Paulo, Brazil, also preach on social media about polyamory – where a couple have sex not just with each other – in the hope of getting others to join them.
In the past, they have received backlash online from those who don’t agree with their relationship style but say it doesn’t deter them.
Isabela says: “Open love for us is about exploring together – no fear, no taboos.
“In the end, what matters is that we complete each other – and sometimes, reinvent ourselves.”