I’m called a ‘whale’ by trolls & am so big I get stuck in chairs – I demand airlines build wider seats for my 26st frame
AN influencer who has been dubbed a “whale” has revealed that she’s had to fork out thousands on two plane seats as she doesn’t fit into one.
Alex Aspasia is well-known for her body positive attitude, where she embraces her curves no matter what.
But when it comes to travelling, it’s not all that easy.
The 30-year-old, who is 6ft and 375lbs, recently returned from a three week trip around Europe and faced difficulty when trying to squeeze into a standard seat.
Now, she’s planning on visiting Paris for Christmas Day – but to ensure a comfortable flight, Alex has been left £6,000 out of pocket due to needing two seats.
“I wish they made seats bigger to accommodate everyone,” the size 26 model told What’s The Jam.
“Not just for plus-size people, but for all travellers.
“Many people, regardless of size, find the current seats too small and uncomfortable.
“While I don’t expect airlines to change their policies overnight, the current system feels very exclusionary.
“I understand that my ability to buy two seats comes from a position of privilege, and not everyone has that option, but there should be slightly wider seats available.
“Or a transparent process for those plus-size so they can book without any stigma attached.”
Alex, from Miami, US, says that while the costly situation doesn’t deter her from travelling, this isn’t the case for many of her friends.
She said: “I know the cost and anxiety can be a significant barrier when it comes to going abroad; it’s something my own friends struggle with.
“Some are afraid to ask for a seatbelt extender or worry about not fitting into their seat.
“And others fear judgment from passengers around them.
“I’ve personally heard from those in my group who have been seated next to someone who text or say negative words about their size during the flight.
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“It’s hurtful, and it discourages many from travelling.
“Flying isn’t the most comfortable experience for anyone; we’re all just trying to get from A to B.
“A little kindness and empathy can go a long way in making travel less stressful for everyone.”
The influencer, who previously filmed herself getting stuck in restaurant seating, plans to shop at Christmas markets and explore the city during her upcoming trip to Paris.
And as the festive season is filled with joy and positivity, she hopes to bring this message forward when raising awareness for the plus-size community.
She added: “I plan to keep spreading body positivity on my travels.
“It’s a time for people to come together and as a plus-size content creator, I often face negativity and body shaming online.
“During the holidays, though, there’s a sense of warmth and uplifting energy that I truly appreciate.”