I’m 64 and every young man’s fantasy – older guys can’t keep up with me in the bedroom, and toyboys flock to me
A 64-YEAR-OLD woman has revealed that toyboys can’t get enough of her, and describe her as their biggest fantasy.
Cindy Gallop exclusively dates men younger than her, as she confessed that older men can’t keep up with her in the bedroom.
The founder of pro-sex site MakeLoveNotPorn revealed that when she began dating younger men it was a “complete and total accident” but admitted that they suit her lifestyle perfectly.
Explaining how she first began dating toyboys, she said: “I used to run an advertising agency in New York, and we were asked to pitch for an online dating brand.
“I was single, and I thought, okay, I have to do this for business reasons; why not do it for real?”
She signed up for a dating site and said that she was met with an “avalanche of responses”, 75% of which were from men younger than her.
Cindy had never even considered dating younger men before, but since giving it a go, hasn’t looked back.
She said that the best thing about dating toyboys is that they have “lots of stamina and short recovery periods“, something which she struggles to find in older men.
On Paul Brunson’s podcast, We Need To Talk, she also admitted that she is “every young guy’s fantasy.”
She said: “I was an attractive older woman with a high-flying career, didn’t want to settle down, did not want to get married, did not want to have kids.
“All I wanted to do was have some fun […], and I’ve been dating younger men very happily ever since”.
A clip of Cindy speaking candidly about her sex life has gone viral on TikTok, racking up over 760,000 views on the video sharing platform.
TikTok users raced to the video’s comments section to share their thoughts, with many also sharing their love for dating younger men.
One woman said: “51 here and my guy is 25, love it.”
Another added: “”She is how I aspire to be!
“Go ahead, girl!”
What your sexual fantasies say about you
By Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist
Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn’t always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it’s always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion: If he’s romantic, he’s emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
A third person added: “Once I reach 50, I aspire to date men 10 years younger.
“No luck yet, but there you go.”
Another wrote: “You go, girl, stamina is important.”