I’m giving my husband a threesome for Christmas – boring presents won’t help our marriage but a night of passion will
MOST couples give socks or chocolates, but Rara Davis has something much saucier planned for her partner this Christmas – a threesome.
The social media marketer, 42, from Peterborough, who lives with her long-term boyfriend Tim Jones, 44, says their shared passion for swinging has brought them closer.
Rara says: “Christmas is about giving, right? So, instead of boring gifts, I’m treating us both to an unforgettable night.
“I’m bisexual, so this gives me the chance to enjoy both men and women – what could be better?
“Last Christmas, we ditched the usual turkey and tinsel for something far more exciting – a night at a swinging club.
“With a festive fancy dress theme, we made sure to turn heads. I went as a Sexy Santa, and Tim dressed as a Christmas tree – with baubles on his boy bits!
“The highlight of our evening? A trip to the couples’ room, where we got it on with another couple.
“For us, swinging is all about sharing the experience. We always swing as a couple.
“We both love watching the other give – and receive – pleasure. It’s a huge turn-on.
“This year, we’re planning another steamy celebration, and will attend another sex party and invite another like-minded woman to join us. After all, Christmas is the season to share!”
‘Naughty side’
The couple met on New Year’s Eve 2021 and have celebrated every Christmas since with a steamy swinging session.
Tim, an IT consultant, is equally enthusiastic. “While my mates unwrap bottles of wine, I get to unwrap two women! Needless to say, they’re very jealous.”
Having been a swinger for over 15 years, Tim says he was drawn to the lifestyle as a single man and carried it into his relationship with Rara.
He says: “I tried it to see if it suited me, and it was amazing. When I met Rara, it felt perfect – sex with her is incredible, and sharing these experiences makes us even stronger. I know how lucky I am.”
The couple like raising awareness for the swinging community as they believe it makes relationships stronger, not weaker.
“Christmas is all about embracing their naughty side,” continues Raya. “And swinging has become the ultimate way to spice up the season.
“People are trying swinging because it allows them to explore their sexual kinks in a safe, non-judgmental environment.
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“I’m not surprised people want kinkier sex over Christmas, because the holiday season brings out adventurous desires.
“This time of year makes people evaluate what they really want in life. The sex-tech industry is booming because people don’t want boring presents for Christmas – they want real self-care.
“For us, the festive season is the perfect time to let loose and unleash our inner desires.
“Naughty is becoming the new nice at Christmas.”