I’m in a relationship but can’t stop thinking about the amazing stripper I met on holiday

DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE having a long-term girlfriend, I can’t stop thinking about an amazing woman I met on holiday. She is a stripper and I am besotted with her.

I am a gay woman of 26. Since our holiday, my partner and I have done nothing but row, leading us to sleep in separate rooms recently.

While on holiday in Magaluf, we went to a nightclub where there were lap dancers.

This particular woman sat next to me, stroked my face and told me she was sexually attracted to me.

She said she would have liked to have been my girlfriend if she was openly gay herself and I was single.

I danced and drank with this stripper and she was very attentive.

My partner was not amused but kept calm.

We are now back in the UK but this woman is constantly on my mind, especially when I am alone.

DEIDRE SAYS: People don’t stop being attractive when you’re in a long-term relationship and while your feelings are genuine, you have identified all your difficulties yourself.

You’ve got a partner, the woman at the club is in the closet and is paid to be sexual with strangers.

If you know your relationship with your girlfriend is over, talk to her about how you feel.

Keep your social life going and meet new people.

My support pack Gay Resources will help you. If you’re successful, thoughts of the stripper will fade.