How These Gay Men Went From Ex-Gay Therapy To Building Their Beautiful Family

Robby and Jeff Busch-Drewery knew that nothing could have prepared them for what they endured in the process of building their family. They did know that everyone deserves a chance to have a family of their own, including them. In this installment of the Huffington Post Queer Voices RaiseAChild.US "Let Love Define Family®" series, contributing writer Eric Criswell tells Robby and Jeff’s story of becoming a family. 

It was just another Monday evening. Somewhere in the suburbs of Atlanta a bowling league was meeting for beer, pizza and hopefully a few strikes. Robby tagged along with a few friends, just to relax and unwind. While there, he worked up the courage to start talking to a cute guy that was on the bowling team. After a short conversation, he gave Jeff his phone number. What Robby didn’t realize until later was that he was so nervous that he had given Jeff his old phone number that would ring the house of his ex-wife.