Women are now getting harassed in bathrooms because of anti-transgender hysteria
It's official: The furor around transgender people in bathrooms is causing people to harass women in restrooms.
But it's not men pretending to be women doing the harassing. Instead, the harassment is coming from people who mistake a non-trans woman for a man — and then try to kick the woman out of the bathroom.
In a recent example, a woman was insulted while in a Walmart bathroom after another woman confused her for a man, apparently because of her short hair.
This is, on top of plain awful, ironic. It is the kind of conflict those who oppose letting trans people use the bathroom for their gender identity supposedly wanted to prevent. They claim trans-friendly policies will allow men to disguise themselves as women, go into women's bathrooms, and harass or assault women.
The claim is a myth: Multiple investigations have found states and schools that have had legal protections for trans people for years have never linked an instance of sexual assault or harassment in a bathroom to trans-friendly policies. (The only bathroom harassment historically related to trans people, in fact, seems to be harassment and discrimination against trans people.)
But it does seem like the bathroom hysteria is leading to some women getting harassed — just not in the way opponents of trans rights worry about. Here are a few examples.
"You're disgusting! … You don't belong here!"
The Danbury News-Times reported:
Aimee Toms was washing her hands in the women's bathroom at Walmart in Danbury Friday when a stranger approached her and said, "You're disgusting!" and "You don't belong here!"
After momentary confusion, she realized that the woman next to her thought — because of her pixie-style haircut and baseball cap — that she was transgender.
Toms, a 22-year-old from Naugatuck who works at a retail store in the Bethel-Danbury retail area around Walmart, posted a video "rant" about her experience on Facebook Friday that had been viewed more than 12,000 times by Sunday evening.
"After experiencing the discrimination they face firsthand, I cannot fathom the discrimination transgender people must face in a lifetime," she said. "Can you imagine going out every day and having people tell you you should not be who you are or that people will not accept you as who you are?"
"When I saw you enter I thought you was…"
Case in point: the man who, um, heroically barged into a women's restroom at Baylor Medical Center in Frisco on Thursday to make sure that Jessica Rush, who manages a local health-food takeout place, was peeing in the proper place.
She was, for the record, and her situation isn't particularly complicated. Rush was born and identifies as female and has no plans to change that. "I look very much like a girl," she says. "I'm not trying to transition, nothing like that."
But Rush wears her hair in a bleached blond fauxhawk and dresses androgynously. On Thursday, she was wearing a T-shirt from her alma mater, Texas Tech, with basketball shorts. As the man at Baylor explained after walking into the restroom behind her, it's all very confusing. …
"When I saw you enter I thought you was…" the man says.
"A boy?" Rush offers.
"Yeah, it was kind of confusing." Certainly she can see why. "You dress like a man," he says several times as he walks away.
"Sir"
In the video, the unnamed woman tries to convince the two male officers and one female officer present that she is a woman, her friends shout in her support "she's a girl", which the officers ignore.
The police then ask the woman for identification to prove her sex. She rejects their demand, offended. The male officers then manhandle her out of the restroom, whilst calling her "sir".
The police eventually tell the woman's friends, who are still vouching for her female identity, "you can all leave if you want".