6 annoying things Nigerian brides should stop doing or lose their friends forever
Some brides-to-be can be so annoying without even realizing it. The little things they do or ask their friends to do in the days leading up to the wedding can be annoying sometimes.
Most of us are all too familiar with the ‘I’m a bride and can do what I want to or I’m the bride you have to do as I say’ attitude.
Many people are ready and willing to celebrate the love between the people they care about, but sometimes, the brides can push their best friends to the wall with their many demands.
These friends can get so fed-up and on the verge of saying ‘I no de do again.’
It is because of all these many demands that some people will never agree to be on the bridal train and will rather wear the colour of the day than buy asoebi.
We’ve gathered some of the common annoying things some Nigerian brides do that could cause enmity between them and their female friends.
1. Asoebi trouble: It’s all fun and games until the bride tells you the price of her asoebi. People are struggling to make ends meet and your selling asoebi of over N50,000 and when your friends refuse to buy, you get angry. Don’t you have a conscience? You shouldn’t get angry when people refuse to buy your asoebi. If it’s affordable, they won’t hesitate to buy.
2. Asking your bridesmaids to pay and pay and pay: You pick the most expensive bridesmaids dresses, you tell them what shoe to wear, hair specification and the rest. As if that is not enough, you want them to pay for bridal shower. Sometimes the brides forget that some of their friends have to travel all the way to make it to the wedding, which is another expense. Unless all your friends are millionaires, it’s important to keep in mind that most people don’t have unlimited funds to spend for unnecessary things. Expecting your friends to spend their hard earned money because of a few hours is asking for too much. They would end up resenting you for being inconsiderate.
3. Picking the style and forcing them to wear what they don’t want: If you’re paying for the bridesmaid dress, maybe they can understand. But if they are paying, it is only fair you let them choose what they like and will be comfortable in. Forcing your bridesmaids to wear what they are comfortable in can be annoying. YES, we know it’s your day but they will be the ones wearing it and not you. It’s always better to take into account their feelings.
4. Pretending the bridesmaid dresses can be worn after the wedding: Don’t even fool yourself, most people will never wear the bridesmaid dress again. You might think your style is classic and can be worn again, but chances are your bridesmaids will never dream of wearing it again.
5. Your bridesmaids are not your maid: If you want a personal assistant, hire one. They are your friends who are trying to make you happy on your special day, not your maid. When you start bossing them around, you only make them feel like your maids and it’s not going to end well.
6. Being mean on your wedding day: Your bridesmaids are there to support you, but you cannot take out your stress on them unreasonably. If you keeping yelling at them and giving orders, they would probably just avoid you for the rest of the day.
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