Read what Nigerian women mean when they say ‘awww’ during love making
If you are not of age, you should probably go read your books and allow the adults take charge here. You can feed your mind on the practical things that are being done in the chemistry or biological laboratories instead.
It is very rare for women to keep quiet during love making; there would always be soft moans, gasps, screams that may come out as ‘ooh’, ‘aah’, ‘ooh yes’ when they are under the sheets with the men.
Most women naturally feel like they have to respond when they are being touched by the men; they worry that they may be sending the wrong signals when they stay quiet. In actual sense, some of them fake the moans and groans that men hear.
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Men feel like they are doing it well because they cannot tell if the sounds they are hearing are to encourage them to go on or switch methods while at it. Now you may be wondering why this is so important; a topic like this has to be discussed because sex comes up when couples state the problems and challenges they are facing.
Sex is to be enjoyed between couples, there is no point running and leaving your partner behind in the process. You have to run the race together and get to the finish line together if possible. Women do not help themselves because they lead the men on and make them think they are on top of the game.
There are many men who believe they are really good when it comes making women moan and groan in bed simply because they judge from the theatrics displayed by the women they come in contact with. Some women fake orgasm when they are tired of the pounding and grinding. That is their perfect excuse to bail out.
When women twist, turn and moan beneath you, you should read their expressions and try to ask them if you are doing it right. Some simply pull at your shirt, dig their nails in your back and make you feel like you are taking them to cloud nine.
It would be good if the women tone down the sounds they make in the bedroom especially if they are not on the same page with the men. This would help the men get to know them better and know the right spots to touch and nibble on. Relationships get better when couples discuss and talk through their sex lives.
Guide him by placing his hands on the parts you want him to focus on. The fake ‘ooh yes’ that women make would only make things get sour because they would have to put up with that standard forever while the men make empty boisterous remarks about how well they can handle women.
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They would go out and tell their friends about how good they are in making women go wild in bed when the women actually writhe beneath them and pray for the whole process to end fast.
Women are complicated individuals; men would have to be patient when dealing with them. If you press a button for too long, you may kill the drive and make them give you the false response. What works for a woman may not work for another; basking in past glory may make you lose focus and fail at pleasing your woman.
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