Shocking: the young girls sell their ‘purity’ online!

In our difficult times of financial crises and currency swings, the buyers and sellers of absolutely everything can be found. Selling virginity online is no exception. The cleanest and the brightest subject of trades is girl’s virginity. Now it is really wide-spread.

Such a way to earn a huge sum is very popular, especially among young students. After just a couple of hours, they can make good money, and maybe even have a good time. No wonder, a girl selling her virginity online can be found almost on every website.

Woman selling her virginity online. Real story

We decided to talk to a real lady, who had already sold her virginity. She moved from a small town to the capital of the country for studying there in one prestigious university. Student life in the capital was very expensive, because very soon the money, which her parents sent, was spent. Looking for some earnings she came across a site where she could sell... virginity.

We’ve asked a lady (we will call her Jamilla) how it is ‘to sell the most sacred thing for the girl’, and how beneficial it is.

- Hello, tell me, please, in details, how did selling your virginity come to your mind?

- Well, you spend much more money in capital than in small town. There are other people - they are accustomed to rest well on the weekends, to sit in the bar during the week in the evening, to wear expensive clothes. And you need money everywhere. Hookah, karaoke, shopping malls, clubs, bars, and sushi - a lot of money is spent on such entertainment. Parents sent me some money every month because I lived in a hostel. At first, that amount was enough, and then I started hanging out with my friends more, and that sum was not enough. But what kind of job can a student find? Dragging trays in cafes? Scrubbing floors in the offices? I decided not to start any dirty work! And I began to look for some remote earnings on the Internet. Initially, I found only garbage like online betting or writing reviews on different nonsense. And then a friend of mine told me that there is another topic... I found ‘sell your virginity online’ website. I decided to try.

- And how can a girl sell her virginity?

- It's actually very simple. I checked in on a dating site, posted the photos in lingerie and without it, and pointed out that ‘I’m selling virginity’. The different propositions came immediately.

- Were you afraid? Still, some unknown men write you and you do not even know who is behind their photographs.

- Of course! At first, I even hesitated to post my own pictures. And then, when different adult men wanted to buy my virginity, I even wanted to abandon this idea. Still, the money was very necessary for me. And it was such an opportunity – 2500$ in cash! So I decided to rely on fate. So I began to look for the buyers for my virginity.

- Who bought it?

- A couple of weeks after the registration one businessman wrote me. He has his hotels across the capital. He is married, has children. And most importantly, he has money. First, we texted, called each other and communicated on the Internet, and then, in about a month, we met. In general, he was lovely and cute. He was tall, wearing a good suit, with nice hairstyle, pleasant fragrance. We sat into his car, he gave me the money for the analysis, well, to see if I had any infection or not. And then we met again. When we were about to go to his hotel, I was very scared, I wanted to jump out of the car, scratch the face of this stranger and go home. I told him to let me out of his car, but he just gave me a tranquilizer pill and took me to his hotel. Everything happened there.

- And if now you could turn back the time and get your virginity back, would you do it?

- No. If to think about it I’ve made very good money. And losing my virginity with a representative and experienced man like the one I’ve met is not such a bad decision.

- Do you want to continue to earn a living this way?

- Only if it is safe and if I need money. In general, I do not want to make a living as a prostitute. I would like to find the rich lover, who would buy me clothes, cars and take me abroad. But I don’t want to be a prostitute. This is beneficial, of course, but very messy.

We said goodbye to Jamilla and continued our ‘investigation’. Yes, virginity sale business now is more common than ever, especially in big cities. But, unfortunately, when it comes to our beloved ones, it becomes very scary.

Innocence in exchange for money

We cannot say that the sale of virginity may surprise the modern man. Such cases are already known to us since the history of the Ancient World. And one story of selling virginity even formed the basis of the sentimental film, which was called ‘Memoirs of a Geisha’. Has nothing changed since then?

There are a lot of ads about the virginity. Giving moral judgment to this ‘business’ is difficult, and is it necessary? In any case, everyone can make her own decisions. However, one should remember it is often very dangerous.

Let's try to understand why it is happening. What motivates the young girls that put the innocence as the good at the auction? And who are the real buyers and sellers?

1. ‘Expensive’ girls

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Greedy and cynical pro passes surgery to restore virginity, or timid girls experiencing personal default and not conscious of the stupidity they are doing.

It turns out that they both equally present on the ‘sexual services market’. So, who often become the sellers?

2. Random people

Those who sell virginity for the first time (yes, it turns out, it can be sold more than once), deciding on such a kind of parting with virginity, often do not realize the seriousness of this step - it is not a game, but a girl understands this only when it's too late to change anything. In the same online forums and feedbacks on the ads there are the stories about:

• the poor girls who had to deal with more than one man ( a buyer brought a crowd, who wanted to have fun);
• a buyer promised but not paid;
• some girls were even beaten and thrown out of the car, of course, with no money
• some girls even disappeared

But let's imagine that everything finished without any crime. She received the money, the customer - satisfaction. What's next? After all, experts say that the first sex is the most important, as it leaves a significant mark on the future life.

3. Professional

There are ladies that have chosen a more troublesome (and more profitable) way to trade their bodies. Doctors admit that the restoring virginity surgery - Hymenoplasty (it is named so, ironically, according to the name of the god of marriage, Hymen) - is currently one of the most popular. There are the acceptable prices, short rehabilitation and you can again make money using ‘it’.

They say that some enterprising women manage to make such sale regularly, without thinking about how it affects their health.

Psychological portrait of ‘a virgin for sale’

However, the girls of both categories have something in common. They are united by the desire to make money using such a way. After all, people always want money, especially the youth needs it: in order to study, to buy decent clothes, to have a beautiful life.

But why do the ladies choose this strange path to the desired goal? Will a woman get the psychological and sexual problems in future?

‘Virginity, chastity, innocence is not so much anatomical concept, but psychological one - says the famous sexologist, I. Cohn. - So, a person who is capable putting up her sacred concepts for sale is not in order with the world and with herself’.

It may happen only once, and virgin selling her virginity online almost never solves her problem. But it is the beginning of a new life with different stereotypes - prostitution as a way to achieve the goal.

Price issue

Prices on the Nigerian ‘market of innocence’ differ from the American ones, for example, very much. Our girls cannot rely on the fee which some students from California get.

On the western sites variation in prices is from 5 to 30 thousand dollars, we have -1-2 thousand dollars. It seems to be not the amount for which it is possible to take such a risk. A girl should understand that she straightly goes to the very dangerous men.

But age explains a lot. Most girls are about 17 - 20 years old.

It is not difficult to guess what the girl gets after she decides to ‘sell the most expensive thing’: frustration, emptiness and even a lot of health problems.

What if after a couple of years a girl meets her only one with whom she wants to be innocent and a bit old-fashioned? Is it worth it? To sell something you can’t get back?

Comment of a specialist

‘The problem is obvious - the transformation of a sound mind in a subject of mass consumption without any true warmth and intimacy. As a result, the first sex, which is always considered to be a sacred act, is now perceived as a cynical game, sport or entertainment.

Tragically, a lot of girls do not even try to wonder what the true meaning of virginity is. As virginity is not just a piece of skin. This is, first and foremost, a certain pattern of behavior - modesty and purity. Secondly, the sublime attitude to virginity is also a historical tradition, passing on from generation to generation for centuries.

And finally, the psychological factor - the first sex is remembered for a lifetime. Not only the conscious memory keeps it, it also happens unconsciously. This is the first experience that the body meets, and it is ‘written on a white sheet’ as the standard with which all others will be compared later.

The first sex can determine the representation of the norm for life. Nature has made the girl in such a way, that she ‘ties’ to her first man, and she remembers him all her life with the utmost tenderness (if he was a loving and sensitive partner). So psychologically for each of us, it is important to have a traditional first sex, the most intimate, delicate and mutual – to feel love’.

The most expensive sale of virginity

Natalie Dylan, 22 years old

Natalie Dylan put her virginity up for auction in 2008 using a legal online brothel. The girl has received an offer of $ 3.7 million for such kind of ‘good’. She planned to pay for her studies at the master's and probably something else. She announced the auction publicly on the Howard Stern Show.

As you see, this decision may bring a lot of dangers and problems. It is not worth it. Your life, health, purity, and soul are priceless! Remember that!

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