The best wedding gifts for older couples, from personalized gifts to experiences they can do together

For couples, getting married is one of the greatest moments in life that they'll share together. And though we usually associate weddings with couples in their 20s and 30s, it's not uncommon for folks in their 40s, 50s, 60s (and beyond!) to tie the knot. It doesn't matter whether they've been together for decades and are finally saying, "I do," or if it's their second at the altar, their wedding day is a momentous cause for celebration and joy. 

But if you're stuck thinking about wedding gift ideas for the older couple, it's important to remember a few key things. First off, give yourself a budget and stick to it. A thoughtful gift doesn't have to break the bank. Secondly, think about what the couple likes to do together. Are they foodies and home cooks? Do they like to travel? Are they sentimental? And lastly, consider what gifts they might appreciate for the stage of life they're in. 

Traditionally, newlyweds didn't live together before getting married, which is why their registries were front loaded with new cookware and crockery, fancy bedding and new towels. Of course these days most couples — especially older ones — live together for years before tying the knot, in which case personalized gifts and experience gifts might be a better choice. Think less about stuff and things you can give the happy couple, and more about the experiences and memories you want them to enjoy together.

Our final bit of advice? When in doubt, stick to their registry for gift ideas, but if the couple isn't picky or hasn't provided details on gifting, then below are some of our favorite picks that we think any older couple would be delighted to receive. 

1. Commission an oil painting of a favorite photo

2. An elegant frame for their favorite photo from the big day

3. A custom watercolor print of their home

4. Engraved wine glasses for their champagne toast

5. A wedding day gift basket that'll make them feel spoiled

6. A new set of (monogrammed!) luggage for their next getaway

7. A personalized cookbook book for all their family recipes

8. A set of matching fancy robes

9. An embroidered pillow that showcases their new family name

10. A nice new set of fancy sheets

11. Their favorite photo turned into a puzzle

12. A digital class for them to master a new skill — together

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