I want to be with an old pal after amazing sex but I can’t bring myself to dump my dull boyfriend
DEAR DEIDRE: I SPENT the night having amazing sex with an old friend and colleague. I really want to be with him but I cannot bring myself to end my relationship.
I have been with my partner for ten years. He is 37, I am 36 and we have a three-year-old daughter.
I stopped being in love with him years ago. I love him as the father of our daughter but that is all
Sex with him is dull and routine and I would like a bit of excitement in bed. He doesn’t like going out, whereas I do, but he always makes me feel that I should not go out anywhere without him
I tried to break it off with him a year ago but he cried and promised that things would get better. They did for two weeks but we are back to the same boring relationship.
This old friend is 35 and we met five years ago at work. He made me laugh and feel good about myself, which I didn’t feel with my partner.
My friend told me back then he liked me but I chose to stay with my partner as I was scared of finding myself on my own if things did not work out.
He contacted me online a couple of months ago. We arranged to meet for a drink one night and I told my husband I had to go away on an overnight business trip.
When I saw my old friend all my feelings came rushing back. We kissed and I ended up staying the night with him. Sex with him was the best ever.
He said that he would like to give things a go between us if I were single, which is all I have ever wanted, but he is clear that he is not asking me to leave my partner.
It’s up to me.
I do want out but my little girl is so close to her daddy I am afraid to leave.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I SPENT the night having amazing sex with an old friend and colleague. I really want to be with him but I cannot bring myself to end my relationship.
I have been with my partner for ten years. He is 37, I am 36 and we have a three-year-old daughter.
I stopped being in love with him years ago. I love him as the father of our daughter but that is all.
Sex with him is dull and routine and I would like a bit of excitement in bed. He doesn’t like going out, whereas I do, but he always makes me feel that I should not go out anywhere without him.
I tried to break it off with him a year ago but he cried and promised that things would get better. They did for two weeks but we are back to the same boring relationship.
This old friend is 35 and we met five years ago at work. He made me laugh and feel good about myself, which I didn’t feel with my partner.
My friend told me back then he liked me but I chose to stay with my partner as I was scared of finding myself on my own if things did not work out.
He contacted me online a couple of months ago. We arranged to meet for a drink one night and I told my husband I had to go away on an overnight business trip.
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When I saw my old friend all my feelings came rushing back. We kissed and I ended up staying the night with him. Sex with him was the best ever.
He said that he would like to give things a go between us if I were single, which is all I have ever wanted, but he is clear that he is not asking me to leave my partner. It’s up to me.
I do want out but my little girl is so close to her daddy I am afraid to leave.
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