I’m worried my husband could be bisexual but he denied it when I confronted him

DEAR DEIDRE: I SUSPECT that my husband is bisexual. I confronted him but he denied it.

We have been married for four years. He is 32, I am 29. He was very close to his best friend but then they fell out badly. I read an email he had sent to this friend and it sounded just like a lover’s bust-up.

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I asked him whether they had been more than friends and he got very angry. He left the room and did not speak to me for days.

My husband’s younger brother came out as gay a couple of months ago. I thought it would help my husband to be honest so I asked him again but he got very angry.
He says he loves me but I feel trapped and I do not want to be married to the wrong person. Should I ask his friend if there was more to it?

DEIDRE SAYS: Asking his friend would probably make things worse between you and your husband.
Focus on how your relationships feels with your husband. Are you close and intimate? Do you share a satisfying sex life?
Talk to your husband about what’s wrong between you. Say it’s making you unhappy.

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