I had sex with a girl after a night out but my friend insists she’s a porn star
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I met a girl on a night out in our local big city we got on great.
We spent the night together and had sex, which was fantastic – but my mate says she’s a porn star.
I met her a month ago and we have been seeing each other since. I am 20, she is 22 and I really like her.
I showed my best friend a photo of us together and he was gobsmacked. He told me has seen her in online pornography.
I don’t watch porn so I didn’t know who she was.
She says she really likes me too but should I carry on seeing her or end it?
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DEIDRE SAYS: I wonder if your friend has ID’d her correctly.
Anyway, the answer is to talk to her about how she earns her living and her feelings about it, if she does appear in porn films, and how you feel about it.
I don’t see why it should be an immediate no-no but it could cause tensions if she is unwilling to change career.
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