DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner and I hardly ever have sex. I am so frustrated but I love her too much to leave.
I am 28 and my partner is 25. We get on great, but she says sex is overrated and I can count on one hand the number of times it has happened this year.
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I have tried to encourage her with sexy undies, toys, weekends away, but nothing works. It is driving me insane.
I keep reading stuff about our sort of situation and all I can see is breaking up, having sex therapy or an affair.
She won’t consider therapy and I can’t hurt her with the other options.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Maybe sex feels overrated to your partner because you have not figured out what really works for her.
Female sexual responses are very different from men’s – and very different from what you see in porn videos, which are positively misleading.
My e-leaflet Thrilling A Woman In Bed can help. If she’s not reaching orgasm regularly, I can send special guidance on that too.
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