DEAR DEIDRE: I FANTASISE about what life could be like with my personal trainer even though I’m happily married. I’m a 33-year-old guy. I wanted to get fit for a school reunion later this year so hired a personal trainer. I didn’t know at the time but he is gay. He’s 26. We chatted during […]
DEAR DEIDRE:I FANTASISE about what life could be like with my personal trainer even though I’m happily married.
I’m a 33-year-old guy. I wanted to get fit for a school reunion later this year so hired a personal trainer.
I feel tempted to dump my loving wife for my gay personal trainerGetty - Contributor
I didn’t know at the time but he is gay. He’s 26. We chatted during the sessions and he told me he liked me.
I admitted I’d been bi-curious since my late teens but never acted on these feelings. We’ve since kissed and pleasured one another.
He said we should stop this as he’s getting emotionally attached.
I confessed I liked him too. He just wants to be friends, but I can’t get him out of my head. I fantasise about a life together even though I love my wife.
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