DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife does not want sex any more and has told me to find someone else if I do. We have been married for 20 years. I am 39, she is 38 and we have a 15-year-old son. Sex has been dwindling for eight years. Five years ago it stopped entirely. There is […]
DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife does not want sex any more and has told me to find someone else if I do.
We have been married for 20 years. I am 39, she is 38 and we have a 15-year-old son.
She does not want sex and it is killing meGetty - Contributor
Sex has been dwindling for eight years. Five years ago it stopped entirely.
There is no kissing, cuddling or touching of any kind.
I tried to talk to her about it but she doesn’t see any problem.
She said she is asexual and that it is not just me, she does not want sex with anyone.
She doesn’t understand that this is a big problem for me.
It is pushing me down and is making me feel unloved and unwanted emotionally and physically.
I sometimes feel suicidal. It is only because of my son that I have not left my wife or killed myself.
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DEIDRE SAYS: This is so sad. You had sex together for over a decade so ask your wife what changed for her and explain how deeply this is hurting you. My e-leaflet Has She Gone Off Sex? will help you talk to her about it in a constructive way.
If you need support call Samaritans who are there 24/7 (samaritans.org, 116 123).
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